JENNIFER FRENCH TOMASIC, MSc
Coercive Control Psychologist Integrated Trauma Practitioner Expert Witness Researcher Educator
I hold a lot of hope for our world, despite the topics my work exposes me to. I believe we have an innate capacity to heal and transform despite the hurdles and valleys of our life’s journey. I embrace and celebrate how human we are and allow compassion to lead and guide me.
I believe in inner wisdom and encourage others to navigate the discovery of their own truth. I do my best to use the knowledge I have to support and honor each one’s autonomy, human rights, and well-being.
Here is what I do:
In my practice, I am dedicated to empowering individuals and families with a supportive, research-based approach to healing and recovery. Leveraging my expertise in Internal Family Systems and cult and religious recovery, I guide clients in understanding and overcoming various personal hurdles, fostering a pathway to personal empowerment and growth.
For families handling challenging dynamics, I provide compassionate strategies to effectively navigate high-control situations, helping them communicate and support each other better. To learn more about how my services can be tailored to your needs, please visit my services page.
Coercive Control
I have a master’s in the psychology of coercive control and work with families and individuals who have been impacted by cults, religious and spiritual abuse, and coercive relationships. My expert witness work exposes me to cases within the family court system and topics that expand to the world of cults, sex trafficking, the troubled teen industry, and groups or situations of undue influence, manipulation, and coercion.


How do we help you grow?
With easy-to-follow discussions and real-life stories, Jennifer helps you understand what coercive control is and how it affects people’s lives. Whether you’re looking for support, trying to help someone you care about, or just want to learn more, Jennifer’s podcast is here to help. Tune in, subscribe, and empower yourself with knowledge and awareness.
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Jennifer French Tomasic's Life
It’s a pleasure to share some of life’s moments with you all. I take my work with survivors (or thrivers!) very seriously, and part of that is recognizing that in systems of abuse, there exists a hierarchy and warping of power dynamics. I speak about this with those who choose to work with me. One of the ways I try to level this dynamic with someone who is trusting me enough to allow me into their inner life is to be willing to share personally with those who have questions or curiosities. I certainly reserve the right to not share, but I most often find that questions bring us closer together, and sharing allows us to see our humanity and create trust. I see myself as an educated helper to journey and navigate all you are going through in a way that’s collaborative, transparent, and empowering for you.
Jennifer grew up in a close family that valued travel and lived internationally. This diverse exposure to different cultures and lifestyles shaped her appreciation for the wild and colorful variations of human experiences.
While living in New York City in my early 20s, I felt she had discovered her calling in life when she found the profession of homebirth midwifery. This pivotal moment set her on a path that combined her interests in health and supporting women during vulnerable times.
Jennifer became a Certified Professional Midwife (CPM) and established her own midwifery practice in the San Francisco Bay Area. Through her practice, she provided compassionate and personalized care to expectant mothers, supporting families through one of the most significant experiences of their lives.
In addition to her midwifery work, Jennifer joined a Mystical Christian School, where she owned and operated meditation centers. Initially drawn in by the spiritual teachings and beautiful community, she later discovered that leadership employed high-demand and high-control tactics characteristic of a cult. This period was marked by a confusing whirlwind of manipulation, undue influence, spiritual and religious abuse, and feelings of love.
Following her departure from the group, Jennifer spent several years working in corporate America. This period provided her with stability and the necessary time to reconnect with family, friends and most importantly, begin to rediscover herself.
The podcast was born out of a desire to support both survivors and families of those with a loved one in a group of high control / high demand. This type of experience can be so confusing and emotional. For many families, it’s almost like having to mourn the death of a loved one, who is actually still alive. Jennifer shares her personal experience of how she got in and how she got out in episodes 1 and 2.
In 2000, Jennifer was accepted to the Master’s program in Psychology of coercive control at Salford University in the UK. This education became the foundation for her work expanding to support survivors and families and working in the court system as an expert witness. To expand her expert witness scope of knowledge, Jennifer started her PhD in Forensic Psychology with a specialty in Forensic Victimology from Alliant International University in 2024.
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I highly recommend Jennifer. She has been a tremendously helpful to me as well also my daughter. Her wisdom is vast! Her kindness and care was felt every time we... read more met. I am very grateful. ; )
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May 28, 2024Jennifer French is a brilliant & empathic podcaster! Her thoughtful prep shapes important conversations about coercive control, a fraught & painful topic. Her humor & compassion make for engaging ... read more conversations -- even funny! When we spoke, it was clear that she'd read my book thoroughly, choosing excerpts to discuss & always hitting the mark! I'm a BIG fan!!❤️💕💖
Esther Friedman
March 28, 2024Jennifer's experience, education, and training make her a natural fit for those coming out of high-demand groups. She is compassionate and knowledgable. I highly recommend Jennifer.
Janice Selbie
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Loved guesting on the Project Hope podcast! Such a great experience. I felt it, and still feel it, in my heart.
Helen Zuman
March 28, 2024Jennifer is one of the kindest, most compassionate humans I have ever met. What’s more, she’s a highly skilled professional working in the much-needed realm of cult recovery services. I... read more am a part of her cult recovery group and have been an individual counseling client as well. The work we have done together has been absolutely invaluable, and I can feel my fractured mind and heart healing from years of cultish involvement/abuse. I highly recommend her if you have been involved in any kind of relationship (individual or group) that involves narcissistic abuse. It is enlightening to talk through the systematic formula that has been used on so many to keep people controlled. And it is so encouraging to know that there is hope and healing available to all!
Emilie Pryor
March 28, 2024Jennifer is deeply sensitive and an incredible listener. Her grounded integrity is easy to lean in to and I’m grateful after every session. I recommend her without reservation.
Marialicia González (DARALUZ WISDOM)
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Genuinely caring ~ JF is the real deal ♥️✨
John Tomasic
March 28, 2024Jennifer French is gaining acclaim as a leader in coercive control and cult abuse recovery. As a survivor herself, she brings both her experience and advanced educational credentials to her... read more work and advocacy, and they come together so effectively in her coaching and hosting of the Project Hope Podcast.
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March 28, 2024Jennifer has been a tremendous resource. Throughout the past two years of working with her, I've been able to understand and recover from my experience in a coercive control... read more group. Learning the similarities of the narcissistic leaders in these high-control groups has been one of the biggest takeaways that has impacted my ability to forgive myself and heal from the experience. Working on unpacking interjects, defined as the unconscious adoption of the "teachings" woven into my belief system, has been invaluable. Also, helpful has been the recovery group that meets regularly, guiding us through a workbook filled with research, studies, and learning from others who have been involved with coercive groups to understand the shared characteristics. Learning about this experience has removed the stigma and embarrassment pivotal to my recovery and re-entry into learning to trust others and, most importantly, trust my intuition.
Jennifer Pacelli
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In my experience I found Jennifer to be a great communicator, a deep thinker and a friendly and warm person.
Stephen Mather
March 28, 2024Jennifer has remarkable wisdom, energy, and compassion, especially for those recovering from traumas inflicted by high demand, coercive religious communities. I could not more highly recommend her services.
Kirt Lewis
March 28, 2024Jennifer's journey though her cultic experiences make her an excellent guide through a myriad of different cultic situations. Her personal knowledge and experience are an invaluable asset to both her practice... read more and podcast. Thank you Jennifer for all the help you have given to those who have experienced coercive control and who have been open to examining their experiences.
robert andre
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Jennifer is a thoughtful and gracious podcast host. It was a delight being on her show. I love the work she’s doing with and for cult survivors and their families.
Alexandra Amor
March 28, 2024I've had the honor be being interviewed by Jennifer for her Project Hope podcast and I'd like to share how impressed I am by her ease, grace, humility and clarity.... read more Her podcast provides an important niche and her gentle, inquisitive conversational style creates a fabulous listening experience. She brings a balanced and welcoming tone to all of her work. Having met her now twice in person (so unusual, given the pandemic and the fact that we live on opposite sides of the country!), worked with her on a couple of projects and followed her work through a variety of channels, I can assure those who don't know Jennifer that her integrity is solid. I highly recommend Jennifer and her work for those in need of it!
Gerette Buglion
March 28, 2024